Grandparents play a significant role in most children’s early lives. A 2024 survey by the Education Authority showed that 32% of children in Northern Ireland aged 0 to 11 used a grandparent or a relative to provide childcare, allowing grandparents to build a vital and emotional role in their grandchildren’s lives.
However, if the parents’ relationship should break down, it may be surprising to learn that, despite having such a close relationship with their grandchildren, grandparents do not have the same legal framework as parents. If a grandparent’s contact should stop because of the breakdown of a relationship, the law does not guarantee contact – but that’s not to say grandparents are without rights.
Grandparents would be encouraged to try reinstating contact by communicating directly with the parents or, if this is not possible or successful, engaging in family-based mediation. This could be a quicker and cheaper method, and less adversarial. A more formal approach could be a letter from a solicitor, suggesting proposals for contact. Quite often, an amicable agreement can be reached quickly using this avenue.
If these attempts to resolve the issue should fail, grandparents can make an application to the Family Proceedings Court for contact. It is important to be aware that grandparents must make an initial application for ‘leave’ from the Court first. This means that grandparents must first ask the courts permission to make an application to court in the first place. If the Court grants permission, then the grandparents can proceed before the court with an application to have contact with their grandchildren. The Court will consider several factors before deciding what contact should look like, including the children’s existing relationship with the grandparent, the children’s emotional needs and any risk of harm. If the children are old enough, their views will also be taken into consideration. A similar approach is taken if the grandparents are hoping to take over primary care of the children; this application would be for residence, instead of contact.
Practical advice
- Consider mediation or solicitor intervention early
- Seek legal advice before making an application
- Focus on the child’s welfare, not adult disputes
While grandparents do not have automatic legal rights to contact, Courts generally recognise the value of the relationship between children and their grandparents, especially when that relationship has been stable and positive.
Edwards Solicitors provide advice and assistance on all children matters including residence, contact, prohibited steps orders, specific issue orders, issues with Social Services, child abduction and adoption. If you wish to make an appointment to discuss any of these matters, please contact the Family Department on 028 9040 8790 or email cmcgee@edwardssolicitors.com.